Women And Emotions: How Exactly Do You Know What Your Lady Needs In A Relationship

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Women and emotions!!! Gosh we ladies a times can’t explain why we do certain things, why we say certain things, why or how we react to certain things. It all balls down to emotions. And this can  really frustrate guys most times.

Imagine your woman being excited and chatty one moment, and the next she’s all sad and touchy? Annoying right?

But from the ladies perspective, what more can be annoying in a relationship than you wanting or needing something but your partner seems blind to your needs.

A woman who feels neglected becomes resentful and seems hard to please from the guy’s perspective. When a man understand and knows what his woman needs at a particular time, the relationship becomes rosier and even more romantic.

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Below Are What Ladies Expect From Their Relationships

Ladies Want To Feel Loved

When women feel loved, they relax and open up to their partners. The arguments dissipate, the sex is abundant. Not feeling loved is the subtext of every argument that you and your partner have.

If she is unhappy that you are going out with your friends, or she’s upset about her day at work, or she is only responding to you with brief snippets of sentences, then the cause is most likely her not feeling loved enough.

Learn to see through her words, actions, and moods and see what the real root of it is.

Ladies Want To Feel Safe And In charge

Women need to have a safe space where they feel that they can trust their partners. She wants to trust your strength. She wants to feel like you can handle whatever she shows you.

She wants to feel like you will not judge her if she asks for something risqué. She wants to know you won’t collapse in defeat if she tells you to do it “This way” instead.

By creating a safe space for your woman to open up to you emotionally and sexually, you will be giving her a very powerful gift- you allow her to grow within your relationship and undo old emotional damage.

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 Ladies Want To Be Seen

Your lady actually wants to feel you hearing her, and you’re being aware of her emotional state. She doesn’t necessarily want you to be affected by her emotional state, but she does want you to be witness to it.

If she is sitting across the room from you and you aren’t picking up on the fact that she is suffering emotionally and on the verge of tears, she will begin to trust you less.

She will think, “If he can’t see that I am hurting now, how long will it take him to figure it out? Will I be suffering for days or weeks before he is aware of it or cares enough to help me through this? I guess I have to rely on myself for my own emotional support.”

Life can seem extremely lonely, even within a relationship. You have to constantly show your partner that at least one person will be witness to her and her journey through life.

 She Wants To Feel Sexually Desired

One cannot ignore the fact that sex is solely important in a relationship. It’s a personal decision if at all you want to engage in sex before marriage. No one’s judging.

Women need to feel sexually desired. They want to make sure that you see and appreciate them as a feminine, sexual being. Praise her body. Feel her and grab her appreciatively. Remind her that you see her as a sexual being and you will both benefit.

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Gosh! Ladies Love Being Appreciated And Praised

The feminine in all people responds primarily to praise and appreciation.

Remind your partner that you love her. Tell her that you appreciate what she brings to your life.  Show her how much she means to you.

The fastest way to run your relationship into the ground is by ignoring your partner and taking her for granted. Appreciation is the opposite of those things.

Appreciation is the embodying this mindset:  “I am aware of what you bring to my life, and I want you to be sure that I am aware of it as well.”

So tell her what you appreciate, and tell her often.

She Needs To Know That She Can Count On You

Life gets pretty messy sometimes. When life’s unavoidable difficulties arise, do you fall apart under pressure or are you able to bend and not break?

Women want to know that we can handle ourselves when life happens. They want to know that we won’t run and hide when they get a bit ‘too emotional’ for our liking. They want to know that they can count on us.

When you tell your partner you’ll do something, and then you don’t do it, it hurts her. She loses a piece of trust in you that has to be earned back. Even seemingly small things break that trust like you saying that you will wash the dishes shortly after dinner, but washing them the next morning instead.

Do what you say you will do, be who you say you are, and be consistent in your actions.

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