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I slept with my best friend’s boyfriend. I never planned and I didn’t even know when it happened. It was quite fast and all, but its been disturbing me ever since and playing on my mind. I don’t ever want to see him again and yet I can’t face her even though she has been calling me. He told her, but to protect my identity, he didn’t tell her WHOM he made out with, because he didn’t want me and his girlfriend to ruin our friendship. But then he turned around and told his another girl, his best friend, who also happens to be a friend of his girlfriend.
When his girlfriend heard that he’d made out with someone, I pretended I was shocked to hear that he made out with another girl, just so my best friend wouldn’t suspect me. Now I need advice on to do? I can’t face her, I am scared his best friend, would go run her mouth, do I tell her the truth, before someone else does? Or do I tell his best friend to just shut her mouth and bury it?
Libs of ORC’s Advice
I will be harsh and say this, you are soulless. How do you go behind your best friend’s back and sleep with her man then come and abuse the same man you slept with in front of her?
How is that possible?
I will advise you to cut all ties with your best friend, your best friend’s boyfriend and everything that concerns them. Leave them alone and carry your ish to another place, because nothing good can ever come out of it. And one thing, the so called ‘friendship’ you didn’t want to spoil just got destroyed by you.
Libs of ORC